Struggling right now? This might be why


Your hardest moments aren't punishments—they're invitations.

Reader, have you ever found yourself whispering, “Why is this happening to me?”

You're not alone!

We all hit points where life sideswipes us—a job loss, a breakup, a diagnosis, or just a vague sense that something’s off. And when it happens, it’s easy to spiral. To assume you’re off track. To believe you’ve failed.

But what if the thing you’re resisting... is the exact thing trying to redirect you?

✨ That’s the shift. ✨

In this week’s new blog post, I unpack how life’s biggest challenges are actually sacred opportunities—if you know how to look. And I share my own story about how a violent upbringing and a strange marking on my hand (the Persephone Headline- GiftMarking ) turned out to be the foundation for the entire Beccology method.

Here’s what you’ll take away:

🔸 A new way to respond when life throws you a curveball
🔸 What Spirit will (and won’t) do to help you course-correct
🔸 5 mindset shifts to help you stop spiraling and start healing

Read it now: From Obstacle to Opportunity: How Life’s Challenges Reveal Your Path Forward

✨ Bonus Tips—Just for subscribers:

Try one of these this week when things feel heavy:

👉 Give your obstacle a name. “This is the Lesson of Letting Go,” or “This is the Chapter of Boundaries.” Language helps shift the energy.
👉 Ask Spirit this instead: “Show me how this can serve me. Let the next right step unfold in my highest good.”
👉 Do one small thing you’ve been resisting. Make the call. Write the idea down. Send the email. Forward movement unlocks clarity.

Sincerely,

Becc

P.S. By popular demand, Cut the Shit: Reframe Your Thinking, Regain Your Life is coming to audiobook—soon you'll be able to listen to it on the go! 🎧
👉 Get updates or grab the print version now

P.P.S. Ready for a shift but not sure where to start? Let’s talk.
👉 Book your free 15-minute clarity session

P.P.P.S. Want a jumpstart?
👉 Grab my free Mindset Shift Journal and start reframing your way forward today.

Hi! I'm Becc

Becc Nelson, LMFT is a spiritual, soulful, heart centered healer, speaker and author who has been serving as an expert in transformation and ascension since 1992. With a master’s degree in human development, and as licensed marriage and family therapist Becc has the wisdom and knowledge to assist her clients in transformational healing of mind, body and spirit. Becc’s work as a psychic medium, ordained minister and angel communicator provides a unique approach to healing that combines traditional approaches of therapy with intuitive guidance connecting you with the most elevated version of yourself and the highest connection with your soul.

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