Your Childhood Might Still Be Running Your Bank Account


Hey Reader

Let’s talk about something you weren’t taught in school but impacts your everyday life more than algebra ever did:

💸 Your money story

We all have one. And the truth is, most of us didn’t write our own. It was handed to us — through offhand comments, emotional tension, shame, and silence.

“We can’t afford that.”
“Money doesn’t grow on trees.”
“Rich people are greedy.”
“Don’t talk about money. It’s rude.”

Sound familiar?

Even if you’re doing “well” by society’s standards…

👉 you might still find yourself playing small

👉 undercharging in your business or career

👉 holding guilt about wanting more

👉 or avoiding your finances altogether

That’s not you being lazy or bad with money. That’s programming. And it’s possible to change it.

Quick Check-In: What’s Your Default Money Belief?

Right now, finish this sentence in your head:

Money is ___.”

Go ahead. Don’t censor it.

Now ask yourself:

  • Where did that belief come from?
  • Is it even yours?
  • Does it serve who you are today?

3 Truths to Rewire Your Money Mindset

  1. Your worth is not up for debate.
    You’re not “too much” for wanting more. You’re not “too little” to receive it.
  2. Money is not the enemy.
    It’s energy. A tool. It magnifies what’s already there.
  3. You can change the script.
    But you have to be conscious of the one you’re currently living by.

Try This: 3-Minute Daily Rewrite

This week, start each day by writing a new money mantra that reflects the life you want to live — not the one your parents, society, or past pain defined for you.

Examples:

  • “It’s safe to be seen and paid well.”
  • “I release guilt about wanting more.”
  • “I welcome abundance and handle it with grace.”

Say it out loud. Mean it.

Let your nervous system learn it’s safe to believe something new.

You deserve a money story that reflects your power, not your past.

💬 I recorded a powerful podcast episode with intuitive teacher Sunny Dawn Johnston where we explored the energy of money, how your early money stories shape your current reality, and how to begin shifting them from the inside out.
👉 Click here to listen to the episode

💬 I also wrote a full blog post unpacking this—and how to start shifting your beliefs around money (without bypassing your very real emotions).
👉 Click here to read it now

With love,

Becc ✨

P.S. Want even more support around your money mindset? Sunny’s 5-Day Money Challenge is a beautiful next step.
👉 Click here to join her challenge

P.S.S. Curious who’s coming up next on Intuition Unleashed? Or want to join me for upcoming workshops, readings, and other live events? You can always find the latest podcast guest lineup and my full event schedule here: https://beccnelson.com/events/

Hi! I'm Becc

Becc Nelson, LMFT is a spiritual, soulful, heart centered healer, speaker and author who has been serving as an expert in transformation and ascension since 1992. With a master’s degree in human development, and as licensed marriage and family therapist Becc has the wisdom and knowledge to assist her clients in transformational healing of mind, body and spirit. Becc’s work as a psychic medium, ordained minister and angel communicator provides a unique approach to healing that combines traditional approaches of therapy with intuitive guidance connecting you with the most elevated version of yourself and the highest connection with your soul.

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